POST EXAM ACTIVIES

Wahah, finally yesterday had mark the end of my EOY for sec 3 :D.
A LONG AND TOUGH JOURNEY, some of you should know why ba. LET PRAY FOR THE BEST FOR RESULT, BUT CURRENTLY WE SHLDNT THINK ABOUT THEM, IT ALL OVER. :D

Yesterday went to CWP for lunch, movies, shopping with the clique.
WE WATCH caught Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs!! the plot's really simplistic, but if you're finding a cartoon flick to make you roll on the floor and laugh your lungs out, try this one. I think it's absolutely awesome, esp when people appreciates the simplest, dumbest, non-sensical things in life. WAHHA, TY JERK :D

ANYWAY JERK, ARE WE GOING OUT TOGETHER THIS SATURDAY, TEXT ME OR SOMETHING ASAP OK? :D
Woots, i miss the fun that we had together that time, THE WHORE VS THE JERK.

Exam is over, but yet the feeling just wasn't right. -.- just felt that something is just missing somewhere. ROAR, BUT HECK LA, GONNA ENJOY THE 5 DAYS, AND SETTLE AS MANY STUFFS AS SOON AS I CAN. Let hope this year games day and SC camp will turn out to be a fun and memorable one :D

K, I SHALL ENJOY MYSELF NOW AND 4GET ALL ABOUT SCHOOL.

Edited @ 1.32am

What would do if XXX was doing YYY/stuck in the same room as you...

Sounds familiar no? Everytime you do a meme/facebook note, its not uncommon to see such a question asking you what you would do if you stuck in some awkward/strange/uncommon/out-of-this-world circumstances. Well generally if these people appear in your meme you're probably relatively close to them, but sometimes when its a 35-people meme or a random one, more often than not you pick some person whom you 've havent really interacted much.

Then you pause. What do I reply? How much do I actually know this person? What WILL I DO in such an awkward situation with him/her? And you come to realise that you don't really know this person very well.

Replicate this to your entire friend list, and theres probably a high chance that you'd be stumped for at least 50% of your friends list. However the point is not about how you aren't really close to most of facebook friends.

What really makes a true friend then? This probably isn't something new, I think I've visited this somewhere, somehow. But this random thought struck me. Or maybe its not so random. But back to the point. How many people are you actually close to? Or these people just mere acquaintances? How are you sure you're really close to them. Because friendship is a two-sided thing. You're never truly close to someone unless they too, feel close to you.

How many friends do you have out there, who completely understand you? Or you completely understand them? Ever stared at your friend and think, "What is he talking about?" Of course there could be worse feelings, but lets just leave it at that. Or to have a friend that you completely relaxed around. Maybe its just me, but its not easy to find friends that you can sit around, to have a silence that isn't awkward, or to not take conscious notice of his/her existence. Perhaps its just me being oversensitive. To not take conscious notice of his/her existence doesn't mean that I don't care that the person is there, but rather I don't mind doing anything cause I know he/she wouldnt bother. Maybe there are more people than I thought around me who does that, but maybe it isn't obvious, or maybe I'm thinking too much haha.

But to use this a strict judge for whether the person is a true friend may be too rigid. If thats the case true friends are really rare, perhaps 1 in a 1000. People, with their diverse views, there will definitely be times that you don't understand/care what they're talking about, but to just nod your head and show interest goes a long way to cementing a good relationship. Take interest in your friend's life, and they will, sooner or later, take interest back in you. Or maybe its just easier for me to be a listener.

However, because you can't read minds, you can never truly tell what a person is thinking. The truly perceptive may be able to, but the pessissmist in me believes that there are times where what you perceive may not be what they're truly thinking. Men, after all, have many faces. How can you tell which is which? And when you are confronted with a story about what the person has done outside, you start to wonder if the person is truly who you know. Or that what you've heard is just a lie. Faith in your friend is good, of course, but isn't more painful to be betrayed by someone you trust? But at this point there lacks a litmus test for real friends. Other than the day of relevation when something happens and you see who deserts you and who sticks by you, there is hardly any before to judge who is a real friend. But having said that, its not a good idea to go around distrusting those around you. Because it ain't going to be building friendships, and when it comes to crunch and everyone deserts you, it just fortifies your belief that true friends don't exist, and the cycle goes on.

Perhaps its better that we receive some form of affirmation.

Perhaps as we grow older, we will understand what makes a true friend. Or perhaps its better to make friends now, where we are more innocent then what we could be in the future. But at the end of the day, which would you rather settle for, a few 'good friends' or many 'just friends'.

You should really read it and try to figure out what they are trying to say, i personally felt that it just make sense to me. :D